Remember the people who matter
How you met. What they're going through. The story they told you last time. Toldari helps you hold the details that make someone feel genuinely known, so you show up like you've been paying attention, because you have.
The people you love are still right there. Toldari helps you keep them close.
Toldari keeps the details that make someone feel known: their stories, important dates, what you talked about last, and more. It nudges you to reach out before too long, and saves your notes and plans after each catch-up, all private and stored on your own device.
$4.99, a one-time purchase. The core app is yours forever, with optional Premium extras.
Loved by early users. "Finally an app that helps me
stay close without turning my friends into a feed."
What it actually does
Small things. The ones that keep people close.
Not a productivity app. Not a CRM. A quiet companion for the relationships you don't want to lose.
Gentle nudges to reach out
Life gets loud and people drift. Toldari taps you on the shoulder when it's been too long, a quiet touch point, never a guilt trip, so a friendship that mattered doesn't fade by accident.
Keep the moments, not the metrics
Jot a note after a good talk, save a plan for next time, hold onto what's worth holding. No likes, no counts, just the real texture of a relationship, gathered around the person it belongs to.
Yours, and only yours
Your people live on your device, private by the way it's built. Nothing here performs for an audience or feeds a machine. It's just for you, the way remembering someone always should have been.
The whole idea
Built around the person, not the feed.
Everywhere else, the people you love get flattened into posts, ranked by a feed, and counted. Toldari is the opposite: one calm, private place that exists for the relationship itself, with nothing performing for an audience and nothing here ever sold, mined, or tracked.
No feed, no audience
Nothing here is posted, ranked, or shown to anyone else. It's just you and the handful of people you choose to keep close.
No metrics, no scorekeeping
No likes, no streaks, no follower counts. Closeness was never a number, and Toldari refuses to turn it into one.
Private by design
Your people live on your device. Never sold, never mined, never tracked. You're the customer, not the product.
Read the full privacy policy. It's short, plain, and means exactly what it says.
Two ways in
Yours to keep. Yours to grow.
Standard is the whole heart of Toldari, and it's yours forever. Premium just adds a few more ways to stay close, for the people who want them.
Standard
The whole heart of Toldari: a complete, feature-rich way to stay close to the people who matter.
$4.99 one-time Yours forever No subscription, upgrade to Premium anytime
- The whole experience of staying close to your people
- Remember the people who matter: notes, plans, shared moments
- Gentle nudges to reach out before too much time passes
- Private by design: yours, never mined or sold
- Yours forever. It stays even if you try Premium and later cancel
Premium
Encrypted backup, private profile sharing, and a little more reach, all kept as private as the rest.
$4.17 / month $49.99 billed yearly, save over 30% Try it for 7 days, only keep it if you love it
- Supplements Standard
- Meeting helper to settle a time and place with a group
- Encrypted backup that restores your people, notes, and plans on a new phone
- Private profile sharing that's encrypted and expires on your terms
- Place suggestions with fast address autocomplete when you add a plan
- Cancel anytime, and your Standard access always remains
About Premium Coming soon
A little more reach. And a safety net.
Premium adds a few more ways to reach the people you care about, plus encrypted backups so your memories survive a lost or broken phone. It's a subscription for one honest reason: backups and connection features run on services that cost a little every month to keep alive. Even then your data stays encrypted, and we still can't read it.
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Meeting helper
Spin up a space to settle a time and place with a group. Everyone weighs in, and the result drops straight into a Plan.
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Encrypted backup
Back up your contacts, notes, and plans, and restore them on a new phone. Encrypted end to end, so only you can read it.
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Private profile sharing
Share your profile with one person you choose. Encrypted, expires on your terms, with no directory and no discovery.
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Place suggestions
Fast address and place autocomplete when you add a plan, so locations fill in with a tap.
Private by design. Local-first, and no ads, ever. Cancel anytime and your data comes home untouched; cloud copies are purged on a schedule.
Start with one person.
Pick someone who matters. Remember what you love about them. Reach out today. Toldari makes that the easiest thing you do all week, and keeps it entirely, privately, yours.